I talk quite a bit on my blog about seeking discomfort as a way to push against anxiety, but those posts are always rather lengthy. To approach the same topic in a different, more succinct way, I wrote a poem a month or so ago to try and describe why I think it’s so important to seek new opportunities, including ones that scare you.
blindly falling
into old orbits
might work
for a while
but exploring
darkness
is how
new stars
are found.
It’s definitely easier to stick to the things you know, but from personal experience and from reading other people’s stories, it seems that most events and successes worth remembering originate from a place of discomfort. I also wanted this poem to touch on the fact that when you are struggling, it can be helpful to confront these feelings through thinking about them and talking to others. This can be a way for you to move forward, rather than getting stuck in the same distressing routines.
Pushing yourself towards the unknown and confronting discomfort is a way we can grow.
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That poem is so articulate and straight to the point when it comes to its message – I really enjoyed reading this whole post and like that you gave a little backstory / explanation as to what you were trying to convey.
Suffering from anxiety myself, I know how rewarding (yet utterly terrifying) it can be to push yourself into the unknown from time to time. Like you said, sticking to the safe is easy. xx
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Aw thank you so much for your kind words 🙂 yes it can be very hard, but worth it most of the time! xx
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Great poem!
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Thank you Johnzelle!
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The poem is beautifully written with such a clear message Alys. You have such a talent for writing poetry. I agree, stepping outside of our comfort zones is scary but that’s where the most memorable experiences are made. Thank you for sharing lovely! xx
Bexa | http://www.hellobexa.com
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Thank you so much Bexa! That’s so kind. Comfort zones are hard but rewarding to break out of for sure! xx
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This is beautifully touching😍❤️✌🏻
Dana
Nowheretobeproject.com
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Thanks Dana!❤
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Such a beautifully written poem. It can be super scary jumping outside your comfort zone but I’ve found some of the best moments come out of it.
Samantha | https://believeinamiracle.co.uk
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Thanks Samantha ❤ Definitely agree!
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Unfortunately I have to agree. Sometimes I wish that personal development could be a little bit easier and slightly more pleasurable but the truth is that what really shaped me in my life were situations that challenged me the most. Love, Iga http://www.igaberry.com
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I wish that sometimes too x
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That is a beautiful poem, with a really lovely message behind it – pushing yourself out of your comfort zone is terrifying, but it can offer you so many wonderful opportunities. 😊
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Thank you so much 🙂 I agree!
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This is simply beautiful! 😀 Such a powerful and clear message and such a great way to express yourself and your thoughts on anxiety. Honestly, a great poem, you should do more poems like these and turn it into a series hun! It’s scary to go outside your comfort zone but it can be so worth it…well done!
xx Lena | https://lenadeexo.com
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Aw thanks so much Lena! I’ve written quite a lot, I just get scared to put them out there and I’m not sure people want to read them! xx
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Beautiful poem and it is clearly a message from the heart. Creativity is such a fantastic outlet and you have shared that piece of you with the world. Keep pushing forward x
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Aw thank you, that is such a kind comment 🙂
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This is wonderful and I definitely needed that 😀
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Thank you!
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I love this poem so much – it reminds me of the poems from Rupi Kaur’s book. xx
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Thank you! I love her writing so that’s a big compliment 🙂 xx
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